Jeremy and Hannah take on True Grit

Jeremy and Hannah take on True Grit

Some weekends are for switching off.

Others are for crawling through mud, climbing over walls, swimming through cold water and questioning, more than once, why you ever thought this was a good idea.

On Saturday, Third Hemisphere’s Jeremy Liddle and Hannah Moreno took on the True Grit 10km obstacle course in Dargle Valley. It was muddy, cold, physical, funny, exhausting and just chaotic enough to be memorable.

The course had a bit of everything: running, crawling, climbing, swimming, swamp crossings, mud pits and those obstacles that look a lot more manageable from the sidelines than they do when you are standing underneath them covered in mud.

Jeremy and Hannah both made it through, although probably with very different finishing styles. Jeremy crossed the line looking very, very happy to be done. Hannah, in true Hannah form, finished with a cartwheel through the finish chute.

Watching it all from the sidelines were Bodhi and Koa, cheering them on and taking in the full spectacle of Mum and Dad being muddy, tired and slightly ridiculous.

And honestly, that was probably the best part of the day.

Because for Bodhi and Koa, it was not about the time on the clock, how many obstacles were done properly, or whether anyone looked particularly graceful doing it. They just saw their parents take on something hard, keep going when it was uncomfortable, laugh at themselves, and make it to the end.

That is a pretty good lesson to see up close.

There is something really valuable about kids watching adults do things that are difficult. Not because adults need to prove anything, and definitely not because every challenge needs to turn into a life lesson, but because children notice more than we sometimes realise. They notice when you try, they notice when something is hard and they notice when you keep going anyway.

You can tell kids to be brave. You can tell them to have a go, to not give up, to try things that feel a bit scary or uncomfortable. But sometimes the best version of that lesson is just letting them watch you do it first.

That does not mean doing it perfectly. If anything, True Grit was a reminder that doing hard things is usually not very polished. It can be messy. It can be awkward. It can involve falling into mud, needing help over an obstacle, or laughing because the alternative is taking yourself far too seriously.

But there is something good in that too.

At Third Hemisphere, we talk a lot about resilience, but most of the time it looks nothing like an obstacle course. It is much less dramatic and usually involves fewer mud pits.

It looks like staying calm when a deadline is tight. It looks like backing each other when the pressure is high. It looks like helping clients through complicated moments, making sense of messy information, and keeping things moving when the path is not completely clear.

Most of that happens quietly. Behind a desk. On a call. In a draft. In the moments where you have to pause, think clearly and keep going.

True Grit was just a very literal version of the same idea.

There was no way around the course. You had to go through it. One obstacle at a time, one muddy stretch at a time, one “surely we’re nearly finished” moment at a time.

And sometimes that is the whole point. You do not need to be the fastest person out there. You do not need to be the most prepared, the strongest, or the most graceful. You just need to show up, give it a proper go and see it through.

That feels like a pretty simple thing, but it is not always easy. Life, work, parenting and business all have their own versions of obstacles that cannot be skipped. Some are exciting. Some are exhausting. Some are just inconvenient and muddy in a different way.

But the same lesson keeps coming back: do the hard thing in front of you, keep your sense of humour if you can, and finish it anyway.


A huge congratulations to the True Grit team for putting on such a great event, and to everyone who took part.

The adults may still be recovering, but the next generation is already making plans. Judging by the excitement afterwards, Bodhi has decided he will be taking on the junior course next year.

We will absolutely be holding him to that.